Grief is a very human feeling, so much so that today it is still too common to think that the cat does not go through it, or something similar. When you love an animal, to the point that you consider it part of the family, saying goodbye causes pain, and a lot of sadness. But when it is the cat that loses a loved one, what happens? Nothing?
The truth is that he also experiences emotional pain.. On YouTube there are numerous videos in which a feline is seen having a bad time after the death of a relative. One comes to mind, where a person is being buried and the cat doesn't want to leave his grave, while another person tries to keep him away; or another, in which a cat is seen watching his favorite human already deceased on a tablet.
What are the symptoms of grief in the cat?
The cat that lives in the house often does not know what has happened, unless of course he has seen it with his own eyes. But he does notice the absence of that person (or animal), and that his family is sad. For him, associating the absence of the human (or animal) with the sadness of the family is something that does not take him long.
If she also felt great affection for him, it would not be surprising if she went through a process of adaptation to this new reality in which her loved one is no longer present.
Among the most common symptoms of grief in cats are:
- Decreased or complete loss of appetite.
- Apathy and indifference toward activities previously enjoyed.
- More withdrawn behavior, with a tendency toward isolation or hiding.
- Unusual vocalizations, such as constant meowing, possibly searching for a mate.
- Reduction in grooming behaviors.
- Greater dependence on nearby humans, seeking more attention than usual.
What to do to help him overcome it?
From my own experience, I recommend continuing with your life, trying not to change your routine too much, and keeping the cat company but letting him decide whether he wants to cuddle up next to you or be petted, it is the best remedy you can give him at such times.
Cats, as animals of routine and habit, are sensitive to changes., so any alteration can cause them even more stress. It is important to maintain the same feeding, playing and interaction routines.
While some cats will seek more human attention, others will react in the opposite way, preferring isolation. In these cases, you don't have to force them, but you do have to be available for them when they need it.
Many cats lose their appetite during the grieving process. Wet food, due to its more pronounced smell, is an excellent alternative to stimulate the appetite of these cats. If after two days they are still not eating, you should go to the vet to avoid possible health problems, such as hepatic lipidosis. This disorder occurs when the cat goes too long without eating properly, which seriously affects its liver.
It is important to remember that although feline grief may seem similar to that of humans, each cat experiences it differently. Also, you should know that Cats tend to show a greater tendency to intensify affectionate behaviors after the death of a companion.Among the most common behaviors that caregivers noticed were increased vocalizations, such as more frequent meowing, and a greater tendency to rub against people.
On the other hand, if the cat seems to be losing interest in drinking water, it is essential to act immediately. Dehydration can aggravate their emotional and physical state, so one way to motivate them to drink is by using fountain-type water bowls. Cats tend to be more attracted to moving water, which can increase their fluid intake.
This process is something the cat must go through. He must learn to live without that loved one. In the meantime, you, as his family, You must respect their space and accompany him without forcing him. Do not hesitate to offer it new stimulating activities as they can be a great help in distracting him and relieving his pain. Providing him with interactive toys, hunting games or fishing rods can divert his attention to something that motivates him to continue with his usual routines.
Finally, although some caregivers may consider bringing in a new feline companion to prevent the cat from feeling lonely, it is advisable not to do so immediately. In this emotional state, a new animal could cause more stress. It is better to wait until the cat has overcome the grief. before thinking about bringing another partner home.
Give him time. With patience and support, you will see how little by little he will become the cat you always knew again. Good luck!